I bumped into a woman that I haven't seen in a few years, she is the mother of an ex-girlfriend called Monika who now lives in London.
When I first arrived in Poland six years ago Monika was studying at the same university where I was learning Polish. After a year together we broke up but remained good friends. I had taken her to London and she decided to move there after she graduated.
I fell out with Monika sometime later after she told me about an incident that occurred on a London bus involving her and her then current Polish boyfriend. They had been sat downstairs alone with just one other middle-aged man sat nearby. The man got off and had left his mobile on the seat at which Monika's boyfriend promptly reached over and pocketed it. Two stops later the man, having run after the bus, jumped back on - breathless and sweating - and checked where he had been sitting. He then asked Monica and her bloke if they had seen the phone to which they feigned ignorance.
When she told me this she was in hysterics, as though it was the funniest thing that had ever happened to her. I had given her quite a lot of money up until that point to fund her life in London as the useless boyfriend was not working and they couldn't pay the rent. The first time I went to visit them one sunny afternoon at their flat in north London, he was lying on the sofa watching television and didn't even get up to greet me. She couldn't understand my anger on hearing her 'funny' tale, I've had my mobile stolen in the past and there is nothing even slightly amusing about it.
Since then I have not had any news from her until this week when I said hello to her mother on the street. She proclaimed proudly that Monika is still living in London and got married just two weeks ago, elaborating on how there were people from all over the world at the wedding, this was something truly astonishing for her as in Poland foreigners are few and far between. Her attempts to impress were futile, I am a Londoner and born of immigrants, although I'm used to Polish people talking to me about Great Britain as though I've never even been there. On inquiring about Monika's new husband, her mother told me that he was from Zimbabwe and that they were going to move there. My incredulity must have been plain because she went on to stress that he has a beautiful house there. Mmm... one might have inherited a mansion in Afghanistan or a palace in Iran but would one really consider relocating? Love can make people do extraordinary things.
Word of the week: Szalony meaning mad/crazy/deranged/insane/demented/unhinged/unbalanced/nuts/off one's rocker/round the bend/off the wall/barmy/batty/bonkers/barking/crackers/loony/loopy/not right upstairs/off one's trolley/not the full shilling/sandwich short of a picnic/screw loose etc.
Tuesday, 29 July 2008
Friday, 25 July 2008
Spartacus in Lodz.
In 1966 Kirk Douglas visited the film school in Lodz. I watched a grainy black & white short film entitled Welcome Kirk which recorded the rather bizarre event. He was surrounded by film students and fans and had a translator who seemed to be part of the crowd.
I am still in the dark as to what brought him here, he himself seemed to be a little confused. It was certainly an unusual move considering that Hollywood had not long before been in the grip of Joseph McCarthy's Communist witchhunts and the Cold War was still at it's chilliest.
The film star wandered around somewhat bemused while the students had set up mock Wild West outposts and, donned in cowboy outfits, straddled horses and trotted around 'shooting' at each other. It was more Abbott and Costello than Gunfight at the OK Corral. Kirk entered into the spirit of it and - strapping on a six-shooter - demonstrated various gun pulling techniques.
Mercifully, there were no loined-clothed Spartacus impressions.
I am still in the dark as to what brought him here, he himself seemed to be a little confused. It was certainly an unusual move considering that Hollywood had not long before been in the grip of Joseph McCarthy's Communist witchhunts and the Cold War was still at it's chilliest.
The film star wandered around somewhat bemused while the students had set up mock Wild West outposts and, donned in cowboy outfits, straddled horses and trotted around 'shooting' at each other. It was more Abbott and Costello than Gunfight at the OK Corral. Kirk entered into the spirit of it and - strapping on a six-shooter - demonstrated various gun pulling techniques.
Mercifully, there were no loined-clothed Spartacus impressions.
Monday, 21 July 2008
Big Eggs has a birthday.
This weekend Big Eggs reached the grand old age of 32 and he rented a private suite in a club in which to celebrate with all his friends. Various drugs were organised and the vodka came free with a 'sponsorship' deal, meaning that photographers were present to take pictures of various celebrity guests and with the said alcohol in hand. I knew most of the people there, albeit fleetingly, and was surprised to discover that most of Big Eggs's friends are not familiar with each other. Consequently I did the rounds trying to spend 10 minutes with everyone and it reminded me why I hate giving parties and rarely have a good time. The music was techno-crap and the minty queen behind the bar was clearly unhappy about something, but all-in-all a good time was had and we ended up back at Big Eggs's flat where we were joined by two of his pals. I eventually retired at 6am, one of the others had a train to catch a little later and did not want to go home for fear of falling asleep and missing it, so Big Eggs was obliged to stay awake with him until 9am. I doubt that I would have been so helpful but Big Eggs is nocturnal and it was easy.
On waking, I took advantage of a coffee machine that Big Eggs has recently taken possesion of in order to revive myself. Big Eggs was on holiday in the States two years ago where a local lad fell in love with him, and since then, every few weeks he receives presents which are paid for in the States but delivered locally. These have so far ranged from jewellery trinkets to a washing machine. After taking in the latest acquisitions, I studied the new montage on one wall that Big Eggs has created of himself. The theatrical portraits in various performances and sometimes quite ludicrous costumes on the remaining walls have long kept me amused. Actors are indeed strange creatures.
While my friend slept I crept out to have lunch with a girl I'd met the night before. After fiddling with chopsticks over sushi for 10 minutes, I caved in to my hunger and demanded forks for us. I then dragged my female companion to Marks & Spencer (yes... in Warsaw!) to stock up on lemon curd, seville orange marmalade, dijon mustard, rogan josh and tikka masala curry sauces, and sundried tomato pesto etc. These things cannot be found elsewhere in Poland and I crave for them, although my new playmate could not understand my excitement having never heard of such sustenance.
That evening we stayed in and watched Kill Bill. A good majority of DVD covers feature people pointing guns and I always avoid them. It remains to me a mystery why we can be subjected to so much violence and depravity in film, but sex - one of life's most natural and pleasant pastimes - can only be hinted at.
The next day Big Eggs saw me off at the train station. I struggled on board the express to Lodz loaded down with my M&S goodies and he waved goodbye as I settled back to listen to Bruce Springsteen and dream about chicken tikka masala.
Word of the week: Nocny meaning nocturnal.
On waking, I took advantage of a coffee machine that Big Eggs has recently taken possesion of in order to revive myself. Big Eggs was on holiday in the States two years ago where a local lad fell in love with him, and since then, every few weeks he receives presents which are paid for in the States but delivered locally. These have so far ranged from jewellery trinkets to a washing machine. After taking in the latest acquisitions, I studied the new montage on one wall that Big Eggs has created of himself. The theatrical portraits in various performances and sometimes quite ludicrous costumes on the remaining walls have long kept me amused. Actors are indeed strange creatures.
While my friend slept I crept out to have lunch with a girl I'd met the night before. After fiddling with chopsticks over sushi for 10 minutes, I caved in to my hunger and demanded forks for us. I then dragged my female companion to Marks & Spencer (yes... in Warsaw!) to stock up on lemon curd, seville orange marmalade, dijon mustard, rogan josh and tikka masala curry sauces, and sundried tomato pesto etc. These things cannot be found elsewhere in Poland and I crave for them, although my new playmate could not understand my excitement having never heard of such sustenance.
That evening we stayed in and watched Kill Bill. A good majority of DVD covers feature people pointing guns and I always avoid them. It remains to me a mystery why we can be subjected to so much violence and depravity in film, but sex - one of life's most natural and pleasant pastimes - can only be hinted at.
The next day Big Eggs saw me off at the train station. I struggled on board the express to Lodz loaded down with my M&S goodies and he waved goodbye as I settled back to listen to Bruce Springsteen and dream about chicken tikka masala.
Word of the week: Nocny meaning nocturnal.
Thursday, 17 July 2008
A session in the gym.
I have had phases of gym going ever since as a student I invested in a Bullworker and used to fumble around with it in my dingy bedsit. I recently started training again, and, tending to get quite big quite quickly, have noticed that I am now one of the bigger regulars and am given a little respect accordingly. However, when the truly massive guys walk in I scuttle from under their path like everyone else. Respect in the gym is given purely in terms of bicep size.
There is an amiable instructor who likes to chat and is planning to leave for the UK (surprise surprise). When in his vicinity I keep my eyes to the floor or focus on the nearest machine to avoid being grilled about the cost of living in England and how much gym instructors get paid. He will keep me talking for ages on the price of cauliflower or the exchange rate and I can feel my hot perspiration turn cold and dry up and I must warm up all over again.
On looking around, the clientele is much the same as back in blighty, except that a lot of the men insist on working out in plastic sandals and socks. Twenty stone monsters grimace and grunt into the mirrors while adopting narcissistic poses. Skinny sixteen year old boy beginners in two's and sporting new gymwear attempt to lift ludicrously heavy weights and are rarely seen again. Foxy girls in taught pink lycra who never break into a sweat (God forbid!), and a light sprinkling of OAP's who seem to be the only ones enjoying themselves.
The running and rowing machines are all pointed towards four TV screens, each showing a different channel. It's difficult to follow one without being distracted by the others. At least two are music channels and feature various shades of brown girls writhing around in hot pants seemingly on the point of orgasm. On top of this is loud music which blares out from every corner and bears no relevance to any of the screens. Despite this sensory bombardment, some exercisers are also plugged into ipods, their poor suffering ears most likely giving off a hum for the rest of the day.
There is an amiable instructor who likes to chat and is planning to leave for the UK (surprise surprise). When in his vicinity I keep my eyes to the floor or focus on the nearest machine to avoid being grilled about the cost of living in England and how much gym instructors get paid. He will keep me talking for ages on the price of cauliflower or the exchange rate and I can feel my hot perspiration turn cold and dry up and I must warm up all over again.
On looking around, the clientele is much the same as back in blighty, except that a lot of the men insist on working out in plastic sandals and socks. Twenty stone monsters grimace and grunt into the mirrors while adopting narcissistic poses. Skinny sixteen year old boy beginners in two's and sporting new gymwear attempt to lift ludicrously heavy weights and are rarely seen again. Foxy girls in taught pink lycra who never break into a sweat (God forbid!), and a light sprinkling of OAP's who seem to be the only ones enjoying themselves.
The running and rowing machines are all pointed towards four TV screens, each showing a different channel. It's difficult to follow one without being distracted by the others. At least two are music channels and feature various shades of brown girls writhing around in hot pants seemingly on the point of orgasm. On top of this is loud music which blares out from every corner and bears no relevance to any of the screens. Despite this sensory bombardment, some exercisers are also plugged into ipods, their poor suffering ears most likely giving off a hum for the rest of the day.
Sunday, 13 July 2008
A promising student.
I watched him from the third floor park his Volvo and walk through the courtyard. A man in the shadows gazed in awe as The Gentle Giant strode by like a colossus, incongruous looking textbooks in hand, and pounded up the staircase to my door. The dogs greeted him enthusiastically and he lowered his mighty frame into one of my delicate antique bentwood chairs. He politely refused all offers of food or drink and only ever drank water.
He had bashfully inquired about learning a little English as he felt foolish at international weightlifting competitions where he couldn't even tell the time or count from one to ten. We started at the beginning and he proved to be an eager and industrious student.
The poor chairs would creak and groan under his weight, and often, on making a mistake The Gentle Giant would curse loudly and bang the mahogany table hard with his fist... everything on it jumping six inches into the air.
We met over the course of a long hot summer and I got to know that behind the fearsome exterior was an intelligent and gracious soul. He lives on his own and has a beautiful iguana and a less beautiful girlfriend who has none of the charm or humility that he is blessed with.
A grey autumn arrived all too soon and with it his enthusiasm waned. While still at a basic level, he chose to 'take a break' and has never returned. On seeing me in the pub he always lights up and makes a point of coming over to shake my hand warmly. He was in good spirits this week having just returned from a holiday abroad... "I spoke the English all time... no problem! This the easy language! I feel very good to this."
Only a few days ago I came across a souvenir from one of our early lessons. He had requested I write down a few sentences which he could learn and use at the pub on the odd occasion when he had to communicate to foreigners. On the plain A4 sheet were the words...private party tonight, we close at six, and... please leave!
He had bashfully inquired about learning a little English as he felt foolish at international weightlifting competitions where he couldn't even tell the time or count from one to ten. We started at the beginning and he proved to be an eager and industrious student.
The poor chairs would creak and groan under his weight, and often, on making a mistake The Gentle Giant would curse loudly and bang the mahogany table hard with his fist... everything on it jumping six inches into the air.
We met over the course of a long hot summer and I got to know that behind the fearsome exterior was an intelligent and gracious soul. He lives on his own and has a beautiful iguana and a less beautiful girlfriend who has none of the charm or humility that he is blessed with.
A grey autumn arrived all too soon and with it his enthusiasm waned. While still at a basic level, he chose to 'take a break' and has never returned. On seeing me in the pub he always lights up and makes a point of coming over to shake my hand warmly. He was in good spirits this week having just returned from a holiday abroad... "I spoke the English all time... no problem! This the easy language! I feel very good to this."
Only a few days ago I came across a souvenir from one of our early lessons. He had requested I write down a few sentences which he could learn and use at the pub on the odd occasion when he had to communicate to foreigners. On the plain A4 sheet were the words...private party tonight, we close at six, and... please leave!
Friday, 11 July 2008
The Gentle Giant.
The Gentle Giant is a professional bodybuilder and fairly famous in Poland, he is often featured in bodybuilding magazines. He trains at a local gym and works as a bouncer in the local boozer, which I suppose in English terms would be classed as a nightclub. Big Eggs, liking his blokes big, goes weak at the knees at the sight of him. I watched The Gentle Giant the other night as he ejected two men from the club who'd had too much to drink and were reluctant to leave and marvelled at his size... not tall but a couple of yards wide.
Most nights he sits on his own concentrated on his mobile phone, his giant fingers methodically pressing out messages on the tiny keypad, or reading. He frequently looks bored and tired, the club goes on til at least 3am during the week and 6am at the weekends. The rules are that the staff must wait until the bar has cleared before they can close, meaning that they sometimes must sit patiently while a hard core group of alkies sit at the bar talking rubbish. I remember being in London and being physically hoarded out of pubs at a few minutes past 11pm, is that still the way it is? The tourists must have been shocked at the archaic licensing laws in one of the world's great capitals.
Now and then The Gentle Giant has a melancholy air about him. He has been training for maybe 20 years and working at this club for the last ten, he's now in his late 30's. He once remarked that his life is the same day in day out....work, training, work, training, his nights spent in the smoke filled club, his days in the gym. He has no wife or children and like most people in Poland he lives in a small flat in a block. He keeps himself to himself and is actually quite shy. He is one of the nicest people I have met in this city. I got to know him quite well after he approached me one night and asked me if I would give him some English lessons...
Word of the week: Kulturyst meaning bodybuilder.
Most nights he sits on his own concentrated on his mobile phone, his giant fingers methodically pressing out messages on the tiny keypad, or reading. He frequently looks bored and tired, the club goes on til at least 3am during the week and 6am at the weekends. The rules are that the staff must wait until the bar has cleared before they can close, meaning that they sometimes must sit patiently while a hard core group of alkies sit at the bar talking rubbish. I remember being in London and being physically hoarded out of pubs at a few minutes past 11pm, is that still the way it is? The tourists must have been shocked at the archaic licensing laws in one of the world's great capitals.
Now and then The Gentle Giant has a melancholy air about him. He has been training for maybe 20 years and working at this club for the last ten, he's now in his late 30's. He once remarked that his life is the same day in day out....work, training, work, training, his nights spent in the smoke filled club, his days in the gym. He has no wife or children and like most people in Poland he lives in a small flat in a block. He keeps himself to himself and is actually quite shy. He is one of the nicest people I have met in this city. I got to know him quite well after he approached me one night and asked me if I would give him some English lessons...
Word of the week: Kulturyst meaning bodybuilder.
Monday, 7 July 2008
You fuck off!
There is a particularly tedious tramp that frequents the main train station and pesters travellers for change or cigarettes or anything else that they are willing to part with. In the evening he is often to be seen swigging vodka and singing patriotic songs, or being chased by one of the kiosk or cafe owners after having pissed too close to their premises. I once saw him being batted over the head with a frying pan by one fierce looking waitress... it looked liked a scene from a slapstick comedy.
Rushing for a train and at the end of a stressful day, I was in no mood when he duly accosted me for a few bob and told him in English to fuck off, at which he turned on me and shouted "You fuck off!" It's not like me to be so rude, and I only speak English when I'm tired and usually in a situation where it's unlikely that I'd be understood. The tramp's reaction (and diction!) surprised me, so much so that I slung him a couple of quid before boarding the express to Warsaw.
Rushing for a train and at the end of a stressful day, I was in no mood when he duly accosted me for a few bob and told him in English to fuck off, at which he turned on me and shouted "You fuck off!" It's not like me to be so rude, and I only speak English when I'm tired and usually in a situation where it's unlikely that I'd be understood. The tramp's reaction (and diction!) surprised me, so much so that I slung him a couple of quid before boarding the express to Warsaw.
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